OK where do I start....first off I have been in a relationship for 5yrs and she has a 6 and a 8 yr old little girls.I am also a women, so we are a lesbian couple. I am not married because of society so I am known to her children as mommies friend. Her children live their father basically because of our lifestyle, but of course he went to the courts and said he was financially better secure than she was and so that was how custody was granted also he works at the same place as the law guardian so it was an easy for him, this happened 4 years ago.