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Wish I'd seen this site years ago

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I posted on this site a few weeks ago after stumbling across it frustrated with the happenings ATM. I've been a SM for 15 yrs . It has been very nice to see that all these feelings I have had in the past that I had been told I was overreacting to by my in laws or my spouse or even the situations are not all that uncommon. Although sad as some of the things may be it is nice to read the comments and differing opinions and to know I'm not the only one out there.

Went to funeral this past week and the ex did not show up but the 16 yr old SD was very rude.

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SD barely spoke except one word answers when spoken to and she would not even look anyone in the face. I went up to her and gave her a hug anyway. My oldest SD was very kind and friendly as usual, no problems there and she understands totally. My 11 yr went up to his 16 yr old half sister after the funeral and asked for a hug and she rolled her eyes at him. It was unbelievable. My 11 and 9 yr olds showed more respect and consideration for others than she did.

Why does she think she's still part of the family?

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:jawdrop: I'm so sick of my husbands ex-wife. She is continually involved herself in his families life as if she were still a part of their family. My husband's sister just passed away after a long illness. His ex-wife was not even friends with her and she wants to go to the funeral. WTF. No one in my husband's family wants her their except maybe his youngest daughter(age 16). It's unbelievable. How do you ever get past the hate of all the crap that has happened, lawsuits, lies, stealing, etc? I don't think I can ever attend any type of function and be "civil" to her.

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