SD's not coming.
After the towel bar incident last weekend SD is still angry that her daddy didn't believe her. BM called DH today and said "so you would believe your ***** wife over SD?" and DH said "yes, of course I would". I guess that's all she needed to hear because she's not letting SD come this weekend. BM says her feelings are hurt that he would chose me over SD.
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How old is SD and what is a
How old is SD and what is a recap of what happened? BM could be starting drama by making a bigger deal of this than necessary. Depending on the story, I wouldn't feed into it. Let everyone cool off, then have a sit down the next time she comes over (idealistic - I know) and talk about the situation calmly. I think expressing feelings is the best way to go about these things, and if it is the three of you, it makes it a lot easier to approach then just you trying to talk to her. Again, don't know the age, so may differ.
SD is 11. Here's my post
SD is 11. Here's my post from last weekend...
What a weekend! SD called on friday just before DH was to pick her up. He forgot his cell phone at home and she wanted to know if her friend could come spend the night. I said it was fine with me but she had to ask her dad when he got there. I knew he'd say yes so I got supper ready with one extra plate. The friend came and the evening went pretty good.
Saturday morning didn't go so well, SD told DH to "shut up" at least 4 times and kept making comments about him not "liking her". She's usually quite rotten when she's tired SD asked if her friend could stay for another night. DH said no, we need to go out around 3pm and we'll drop her at her house then. SD continued to ask and DH said no, I'm not changing my mind.
Earlier I had been downstairs to collect laundry and later on I decided to clean the bathrooms. I walked into the downstairs bathroom which had been fine 4 hours earlier and the towel bar was ripped from the wall, it was bent so this looks like it was done with force, also the screws holding it in place had been used to poke other holes in the wall.
The baby can't get downstairs and DH or I didn't do it and the other kids are at their dads.I went to find SD, the conversation went like this:
me "SD, why did you rip the towel bar from the wall?"
SD "I didn't, it was like that"
me "no it wasn't, I was just down there a few hours ago."
SD "you don't believe me"
me "no I don't, either you or your friend did it, there has been no one else here"
DH "SD you need to stop destroying things when you don't get your way"
SD "I didn't do it"
DH "yes you did, and you'll pay to fix it"
SD "I'm calling mommy, give me the phone"
DH "go ahead and get the phone yourself"
So she called her mom who thinks we're so mean and then her and her friend left. We had a lovely saturday and even went out to dinner. Hopefully this is a sign of things to come and DH will continue to have balls.
Oh boy! I'm speechless!
Oh boy! I'm speechless!
Yeah, I'm speechless alot
Yeah, I'm speechless alot when SD's here. When she doesn't get her way she destroys things.
What a terd!
What a terd!
DISbelief~
~You have to BE crazy to UNDERSTAND crazy!~