Im recently engaged to a single mother of a six year old girl. I love them both to death and only want to see them both happy. We have been together a few years but just with in the past two i have been involved with her daughter. The BD has never been in the picture since she was born and denies that hes even hers. My fiancee's daughter is still very unsure about me she knows that were eventually going to get married, but just seems iffy about it all. She is very scared of the unknown and thats what this is.