I have a mentally disabled neighbor. He is in his 20's. One of the sweetes gys ever. When i was picking up the steps from the bus stop i saw a group of neighborhood kids ganging up on him. On of my stepkids was involved in name calling. A few of the kids where pushing him around making threats. I dont know whay the heck possessed them to do that. His parents came out threating to call the police. I pulled my ss back after all the kids ran and forced him to apologize. I even apologid and started to cry. This sweet man who had j u st minutes before was getting attacked hugged me.

The stepkids keep asking to go to the pool. I keep saying wait until the weekend DH and I have to work. SD9 does not get the memo and keeps saying please please pleaaaaaase. The twins then want to chime in. I say the next person who ask me wont be going at all. The leave and come back two minutes later with the pleeaase please please. I said all right everybody get out of my face! DH gets pissed at me saying I hurt their feelings and I should learn to talk to them. Really? I guess I'm enemy number one in the house now.

" Man I got Swamp butt".

"I'm broke can I bower 50 bucks to take the kids to chuckie cheese for their cousins birthday"

" I dyed my hair with kool aid befor its fine just let SD9 do it or I'll just let her do it at my house with real dye your choice"

" Why you getting all bent up over stupid s#*t"?

" Ima let her get that other hole in the top of her ear pierced don't b*&ch about it please"

Everytime I ask my stepchildren to do something its met with back sass. " I am, okaaaay, I know , I want my dad, your not my mom". I'm sick and tired of the sass and the attitudes. We had a meeting about it anand DH has been backing me up but they continue to disrespect me. They will only listen if DH says it.