We've been together a few months. We work opposite shifts, he gets out at midnight and I have to be up at 8 am. For a while we would make an effort to see each other at least twice throughout the week after he got out of work. I guess it messed with his sleep schedule too much and he couldn't wake up early enough to get anything done before he left for work. So now I can only see him on the weekends, when he has his 2 year old son. He doesn't see the importance of alone time, just the two of us. That's why I enjoyed seeing him during the week when SS was at mom's.