I have been with my Fiancee for 2 years. I saw the red flags in the begining with his daughter, but turned my head to it. Well it has never changed. She is such a brat. Ignores u on purpose, stomps her feet and crossed her hands over chest, says hurtful things, and is manipultive. Now her mother is a nightmare. This child had NO manners or respect towards adults, and everyone allows her to run the show. I am a mother of a daughter as well. She is 6 yrs older. I am a disiplinary parent who has raised my child alone all theses years. My daughter is far from this 4 yr old.