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I HAVE ALOT OF QUESTIOS TONIGHT!

Life is really stressful right now and I just need to vent!!! I am wondering if anyone has ever adopted and can share the process. I had a histerectomy three years ago because I had cancer. My dh and I have talked about adopting ALOT! He has his the kids and I have always wanted to have children. It was my mistake that I could try to make his family my family, the teen skids just don't really want anything to do with me. I'm really not sure why! Especialliy when their own mother says I am better for them then she ever was.

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S/D IS IMPOSSIBLE

Well where do I start? As some of you may know we have been going through hell with my husband's ex and his ss. Now they have pulled my sd into the caous. Just a quick review. My husband and I have had fc of the two children since we got married. The bm is a disaster, crazy and money hungry. Well, last summer my ss ran away twice just because he wasn't allowed to run all day and all night and do whatever he wanted to do. We do believe in the word NO. BM does not so where would you want to be if you were a teenager.

WHAT A MESS!

My DH and I have been married for almost 5 years now and we have had FC of his two children since day 30 of our marriage. Just because BM is such a disaster. Now she( after voluntarily giving up custody) wants the kids back. More for the CS then any other reason. We skipped mediation and are now dealing with a G.A.L. We have been on hold with the G.A.L. now for three months. How frustrating!

Just a Question

My DH and I met last week with the GAL in regards to BM wanting custody back. Each of us met with the GAL seperately. After having many sit down talks with each other we have discovered that there were so things we left out or would like to add to our conversation with the GAL. Is it acceptable to contact the GAL and request another meeting? Or should we just leave it? We just feel that there were some important facts that we may have overlooked. We have not been through this before and it was very nerve racking. :?

Frustrated with BM

My husband and I are back in court with the BM. She wants custody of the children again. Five years ago she gave up custody voluntarily now she is claiming that circumstances have changed. We have a GAL and the BM has the GAL convinced that she is "Supermom". When in reality she is just the opposite. We have not been to the final hearing yet but my husband and I don't ahave a good feeling about what the GAL'S determination will be. She has been arrested and conviced of a felony, lied, stole from the food stamp program, manipulated the children it goes on and on.

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