After a nice long talk with my nail tech today who I get along with really well and just happens to share the same birthday as BM, I did some "soul-searching."

(And THIS is why I like blogs. Some place to jot this down but not a word document because Microsoft Word doesn't give you any input in return.)

I asked myself about goals and ambition. I used to have them but I have lost focus in the past 6 months and become somewhat obsessed with BM and the negativity surrounding the divorce between DH and BM.