I'm really scared she will get some outrageous child support amount granted and back support. We have had SS11 60% of the time and always bought all of his clothes, shoes, haircuts, extra curricular activities, school supplies, cell phone, ect for BMs house. We have never had a legal arrangement. She is taking us now bc we set boundaries and she did NOT like that. Every since she filed she has been horrid.

AND most of them seem to think like our psycho BMs. :? I've heard a few say some crazy nonsense about how its ok for BM to call SMs DH every day and for them to talk for 15mins each day when SM is NOT around. I've heard some say that skid that calls SM lazy and bad mouths her to her FACE, that SM doesn't have a right to say nor punish, SM should only give words of encouragement and leave disapline up to DH AND BM. :O I've seen about 5+ users that have very different views than what a SM should/would. Now I'm NOT saying ALL new users are like this at all!!

I bet this will end their creepy a$$ behavior!!!! Esp for the boys, girls might have to be a little older... And the best part is YOU WILL NOT BE ACCUSED OF BEING EVIL SM FROM ANYONE (except maybe sbrats) It's such a grand idea. Why didn't I think if it before?!!!

Quit allowing your DH, BM, SKids to run your life!!!! Stand up for yourself and if your demands are not met let it be know there will be consequences!!!!! And do not, I repeat do not, make empty threats!!!!! Some of this stuff I read on here is absolutely absurd!!!!! I cannot believe that anyone would stand for this abuse from a man that is supposed to love you and spend his life with YOU. Make your DH grow some balls with BM and SKids!!! Make them stand up for you!! Make them disapline their brats!!! Make them all respect you!!! Only YOU have control over YOUR life!!!