I'm a 29 year old woman with no kids of my own. I have been in a relationship with a man who was divorced almost a year ago. He has custody of his biological son and one of his ex-wife's sons. He and his ex-wife are on good terms. He calls her a friend and he doesn't understand why it bothers me. I guess maybe i don't even understand why it bothers me that they are still friends after their divorce. I want what is best for the children. Am i jealous, insecure, fearful??? I guess it hurts that i'm constantly reminded that he had a life with someone else. I love him with all of my heart.