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New mother/son activity: SS 14 and BM-from-hell lie to DH together now???

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SS14 and BM have now taken to being dishonest to DH TOGETHER. How can we help SS14 turn into a decent honest person when BM encourages this a-hole behavior just because she still LOVES to get under DH's skin???
Funny, they'll treat him like a fool but they still want child support and toys, movies, food, school supplies, etc etc etc.... :sick:
Any ideas ladies?? I'm having a hard time walking that tricky stepmom line but still standing up for what's right without being "the bitch". *insert eyeroll here*

How to prevent the manipulation???

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BM is crazy and amoral. No big shock there. And SS 14, is usually great but today he was bored while dad was at work, ignored my suggestions, and called his mother, who currently doesn't have custody, and ran off with her. Long story short: spending time with "mom" and the people in her life is not a good idea. When DH called to ask that he come home by 6pm SS handed the phone to BM who said "No!" and hung up on him.
Now what?? Do we have to constantly entertain him now so he won't play this game with us and his mother??
HELP!