I'm so happy to find this site. I've felt like such a b#!@h all this time! I don't really pick up on what all the DH, BD, SD, etc means though. Anyway, I'm engaged a year now to a nearly perfect guy...honest, faithful, handsome, hardworking, wonderful father. We've been together 7 years. We have a 3 yr old daughter together and he has 2 adolescent kids from a previous marriage. The mom is a witch. Enough said. We have his kids every other weekend. And by the time Friday night comes around, I'm already tired of it. They trash their room.