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Oh I could just cry!! That lying ^%#&*!! (looooong one)

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Submitted by MrsDoom on Tue, 07/17/2007 - 9:02am

So our BM lives about 1.5 hours away, and we have been -slowly-planning to move up there for a bit now. It's a pretty ritzy little town and a considerable drive to/from our (DH and I) employers, so we have been saving and planning for quite some time. Our plan is to save up, get a place on SS9 bus route so we can have him 3 days and BM can have him 4 days a week and we would alternate. This would (in our state) drastically lower if not negate the need for child support, as each parent would be responsible for SS 1/2 the time. Or as damn near close as possile.

Lying on the court paperwork...

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Submitted by MrsDoom on Thu, 07/12/2007 - 2:09pm

So I was going through our court paperwork recently and realized that BM lied hardcore on her bank account information. She put that she had $500 in a checking and that was all. This woman has 4-5 figure bank accounts here and there. So, my questions are:
1. Would it have really made a difference if she had been honest?
2. Is this something we can bring to the courts attention and have anything be done about this?
3. Or best to wait until we can modify the whole court order?

What's w/the control issues??

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Submitted by MrsDoom on Thu, 07/12/2007 - 12:26pm

I have read a couple posts on here about custodial parents and their control issues...our BM is obsessed with control. DH and BM had never had a court order previous to DH and I getting married. Few weeks before the wedding, we get the paperwork. Needless to say, coming up with $500/month additional for c/s was a HUGE financial hurt for us.