Hello Everybody. I am new here and very happy to have found this site! I am a Stepmom to a now 13 year old SS. I have known DH and SS for over 8 years. BM lives in the same town. Christmas is always so emotional for me, and every year I have to wait for BM and DH to decide what's going on and then my DH to let me know what plans to make because it always changes at the last minute.