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O/T anyone else with christmas blues?

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I really want to be excited about christmas this year, it's my son's first christmas he will have santa presents and be excited about presents. I'm excited to see him open his presents and all, but I can't shake the Christmas blues this year. My sister past away earlier this year at 20 and it's really put a damper on my christmas spirit honestly with everything that has happend this year (it has been a very awful year) I just want christmas and the holidays to be over.

SO, is thinking about terminating his rights

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Honestly I don't know what to think of this or how to support him, his exw is threatening all this stuff against him and is trying to build up another abuse case. I understand where he is coming from, his son will not even call him dad anymore and we have talked to cps and lawyers and such pretty much we can get more time with him but we have no control of what she does. It makes me really really sad, I have watched this guy that I love cry for days over this, everytime his son's name or anything concerning him is brought up he tears up, and honestly I want to kill her right now.

exhausted

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I have been with my SO for 9 months. We live together with my BS and his son comes once a month, honestly I am to the point of exhaustion, depression, and anger in dealing with his ex wife and everything that has happend. Since we have been together the major things that have happend is she called a welfare check on me a little while after my SO let her come see him while he was at work and SS was with me. She broke into his house when we first got together to steal the dog they had when they were married and he had taken care of since she moved out.