I am sooooo glad I found this site. I am the soon-to-be SM of one girl 9 yoa, and one boy 6 yoa and they constantly have something going on whether its softball, cheer, competitions, etc. I am 23 years of age and I do not have children of my own, never been married. I am a part-time student, and work full time. We share 50% custody of SD and SS and I resent them so much most of the time because I feel like my time away from school and work is always about them.