I guess I have to just come to the realization that I will ALWAYS be second fiddle; to his narcissistic, manipulative ex, to his 2 spoiled rotten, selfish, greedy brats. His kids are 10 and 12, both girls and they act like they are 4 and 6. They have been coddled and have had everything handed to them. I remember when we discussed having me move in with BF. The big stupid half million dollar home that his ex just HAD to have and he graciously gave into her! They were separated 2 years and all the while, he was paying her mortgage AND his new mortgage.