I knew she was doing this, but it just came out finally. SS14 just told us that BM told him that she can't pay him his allowance that she had set up w/him due to child support. Keep in mind BM a/k/a "Mange" constantly goes on vacations, (5 this year already), to go boink whatever boytoy she has going on at the time. THANK GOD this was an earlier post/discussion on STalk and found out that it was perfectly acceptable to set out the "facts" being that BM receives 25% of DH's retirement on top of her getting her full retirement, the house and all furnishings, etc.