I'm new here and at my wits ends with my stepson. I need an outlet and maybe a different perspective on the situation(s). A little about me. I'm 41, recently married as of last year. My husband has an adult son who is 24. I have never been married before nor do I have children of my own so I feel a bit lost as a step parent. I have always wanted children, it just didn't happen for me, so when I met my husband, I thought great! I'll have a child, even if he was 21. Just didn't think that it would be were I am this frustrated with him.