DS told DH happy father's day right away in the morning and spent most of the day with XH (and gave him a gift).

YSS texted DH and came over with a card, gift, and made everyone brunch. 

OSS was nowhere to be seen, wasn't heard from, and had nothing to do with the card or gift. DH still hasn't heard from him. He may be show up later today for a different errand, but no one should hold their breath if they think yesterday will be acknowledged.

I sometimes wonder what it is with OSS. I know he and DH haven't had a fight. Is OSS lazy? Is he trying to make a point? I'm thinking just lazy and hasn't learned why it's beneficial to push yourself to do for others. I also sometimes wonder if I'm seeing DH when he was young, if he couldn't be bothered either but figured it out as a societal need later.