Graduation Hell
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Was it big happy family day and I missed the memo? I am all for being there for the kids and showing a nice front, but I draw the line when my husband and his ex are all cozy and doing the family picture thing while my kids and I are left in the wind. I kept my head held high until I saw all the photos my husband took of his kids and their mom. It was like one big happy family.
It wouldn't bother me so if the ex wife wasn't trying to hone in and be the wife again which she does often enough. It isn't it wrong for some of this or what??
SS...22 years old...MUST get
SS...22 years old...MUST get a family picture every time him BM and DH are in the same place. It is gross. I don't say much about it because my DH is adamant that it does not hurt anything and it makes SS happy. It is not a hill "I" would die on.
I am just seriously tired of
I am just seriously tired of it. The kids BM has very little to do with the them. I am the mother figure, but when she appears the red carpet is rolled out and I go back to the soap bucket. I am ok with it...I get it. I don't want to be their mom, they have a mom. I have my own children. But, for my husband to stand next to her for 30 minutes and then pose for all the photos while my kids and I stand back like we don't belong is crazy. Go back to her---let me help you pack. I told him she is the mother of your children. That is it. She is not your wife, friend or family any longer. I cook, clean, work, do laundry, attend all the damn school functions and volunteer for the committes and I get crapped on by him. The kids ok...him no.
This rabbit hole I climbed into has to end somewhere.