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Raggles's picture

Submitted by Raggles on Sat, 04/25/2015 - 4:36am

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Blended Family Issues

Ok next month is OSD 21st birthday and SD17 18th birthday.
Luckily they have decided NOT to have a party. I could see all sorts of problems arising from that. Anyway i have major issues with both these girls and i think i will get them a card each but thats it.
Part of me doesnt even want to do that after the way they have both behaved towards me and my daughter and getting the card is really for SO sake more than
The extent of our conversations are hello and occasionally goodbye!!!
Would you bother with cards/presents??

FrackturedBradyBunch's picture

Submitted by FrackturedBradyBunch on Sun, 04/26/2015 - 4:47am

Then don't sign or give a card if you don't want to.

If my husband writes my name on the cards to any of the StepDaughters...well, whatever, but I don't do a darn thing for any of their birthdays anymore

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Submitted by hippiegirl on Sat, 04/25/2015 - 11:37am

Nope.

IslandGal's picture

Submitted by IslandGal on Sun, 04/26/2015 - 9:49pm

Absolutely not! Treat me like shit and you get shit. Pity there's no hallmark cards with messages like this.