Additional info on 36 year old SD actively trying to get pregnant
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I didn't add that she also has a heart condition (she developed it last year, we never found out why). This condition can cause severe heart failure in pregnancy and she knows it! She has a young son, but obvioulsy doesn't care. She stopped speaking to us over a month ago after we told her we will NOT support her anymore. Her current boyfriend is unemployed, has been for about a year, has a tolddler from another woman and ANOTHER woman just gave birth this past January! This is just insane.
Wow. That's just the cherry
Wow. That's just the cherry on the sh!t sundae.
How is counselling going?
Counseling is the BEST thiong
Counseling is the BEST thiong we have ever done. DH has opened his eyes. He is very sad, but knows his rescuing enabled all this behavior. He is a wonderful man---will help anyone who asks. I feel for him as she totaly ignores him now. Therapist asked him to write her a letter. He did. It came off, even to me, as VERY harsh. I suggested he stick to the facts, tell her he loves her, but the charade is over. No one can fault anyone for pointing out facts---and, he has LOTS of VERY bad decisions she has made with her life. He is afraid she could die--and, that is a REAL possibility. I am just disgusted with how this is affecting our grandson. It's not his fault.
You are very fortunate that
You are very fortunate that your DH could see the light and admit his part in the creation of these behaviors. That is huge.