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Downtowncrabby's picture
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Dh has joint legal custody and co says eowe and one night a week. Pays cs and all other orders. Well as of this last year we have skid at least 3 nights a week due to bm working plus any other niggt she ponds off on us plus our weekends. Ive been keeping a calendar of events and when we have them and why. Also other issues like her leaving them alone at night. Skids are older. Dh talked to bm about modifying co so its 50/50 and no cs since she makes good money now. Well she said no way and he cowered to her and we atill have them alir is there anything else i can do to make iur case stronger if we go back to court. Can she try to get back alimony even though we had it modified what type of proof is good to have in court. .. ugh info please

ctnmom's picture

How to start? Easy. Your DH has to follow the CO TO THE LETTER. If he doesn't the way he has been, well, there you go, you get in the situation you're in. You don't have any control, only he can change things.

Downtowncrabby's picture

Well him following co wont happen. He would take his kids whenever she tells him to or if they wanna come over to play with kids. He said its not worth the fight to bot see his kids more than what hes allowed. I said im on board but it needs to be on paper or we will get screwed down the road.