I find myself in a very lonely situation. My husband is in prison(white collar crime, long story) my SS19 and SD15 left with their mom. which is where they should be I agree...but why does my SS19 continue to bash me to people. He recently moved out on his own over an (and should I say first) discussion we had. He is now telling people that I kicked him out of the house. I try to have communication with my sd15 for the sake of my DD14 (which they grew up togher) but its impossible now having the BM and SS on her ear. I am defeated and alone. My husband won't stand up to him because of where he finds himself. I want to get a long with all of them, even BM which apparently has become to be the "Mom of the year". I try my best to keep the peace for the sake of the kids and my husband. How easy our job as SMoms be if BM put there own kids in their place. Why must they stop being the parent to become the "friend". And here goes the big one, I still pay for my SS19 car payment the whole 400$ of them. The "mom of the year" cant, and apparently I have money growing out of my @ss. All I do is to get along with her, him and everyone....end vent.