I have been with my SO for almost 3 years now. His BD (18) whom I never met...for a multitude of reason most of them having to do with her mother and her threats...recently made plans with her father and I...the night before my SO received a text that "this was unacceptable" and would "never" occur from his ex - that it would be over her dead body. His daughter has no voice and just does what her mother says, which seems to be her choice. I blame everyone sadly! My SO and I go about our lives...his financially does what he is supposed to but isn't there supposed to be more...they just seem to want the $ and not a relationship with him (forget about me) and it is sad.
I have met his eldest and when she is in town we do see her...I was just wondering although I know these situations are never what we want them to be - is this common? I feel hurt but should I...do I have that right? I had nothing to do with the end of their marriage nor was I involved with him...so that is not the reason...I just don't get why I am disliked (that is how I feel) without even having her met me...most of the time I feel blessed I haven't had to deal with a teenage girl through the years but for some reason today I feel I don't know sad???