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Submitted by member1234l on Sat, 12/06/2014 - 2:34pm

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Dont even know what to say or do on weekends that his kid isnt here. Im so used to locking myself into the bedroom or leaving for thr entire weekend. Now its just he and I and incredibly awkward. Nothing to talk about or do together. Lol

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Submitted by blayze on Sat, 12/06/2014 - 6:39pm

Yes, Girlfriend, the answer is SEX!!! haha A lot of it!

My man and I get 3 kid-free days per week. We revel in the LOUD SEX.

I'm hearing Trey Songz in my head... "I bet the neighbors know my name."

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Submitted by ChiefGrownup on Sat, 12/06/2014 - 6:53pm

Endorse all of the above ideas, especially the three letter ones that end in x. Starts with s. Oh, yeah, there's an e in the middle.

I had a marriage counselor in first marriage who said do active stuff together and that sex actually doesn't count for that. So play Scrabble or take a walk together, but going to a movie doesn't count (passive). So if your relationship with him needs a tuneup and the hot jungle sex is too big a leap, go bowling or ice skating or walk in the park together to get your love engine revved up.

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Submitted by member1234l on Sat, 12/06/2014 - 9:18pm

I just always find my thoughts always telling me I dont want this life longterm with him. And I cant shake my thoughts. He also doesnt emotionally satisfy me, so we are very far apart sexually. We are more like roommates. And he certainly doesnt talk to me about anything personal having to do with himself, which leads me to believe he hides things dealing with kid/money/ex/mom because I would he pissed if I knew. (Things have happened in the past) and he has been known to lie.