What is BM problem?
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My DH and I have been married 3 months. I have never spoken to his BM but she sends him text that say things like "that's alright she can have my dirty seconds" "you only work out in the gym because your *ick is so small" "kinda funny everyone is laughing that you married someone old enough to be your mom" btw I am 5 years older than him. "Your woman is so fugly lol", "I read a story where a couple died in a motorcycle crash I was sure hoping it was you and your woman" "The whole time I was with you I was thinking about my real man" which is the guy she cheated on him with.
What is her problem?
I don't know what her problem
I don't know what her problem is, but your DH needs to tell her to stop, and if she doesn't stop, he should file harassment charges.
This is ridiculous behavior and your DH needs to address it. He would be extremely angry with you if you allowed an ex to say things like that about him. Well, just because BM had his kid doesn't mean she can act like an a-hole.
Simple, she wants attention.
Simple, she wants attention. What does this mean? I don't know. It could be that she is jealous that he is happy. It could mean that she just wants to push his buttons to prove that she can. But I do for a fact that she wants him to react. The more he doesn't react, the ruder she will get. If I were him I would not respond at all. Not a "what's your problem?"; not a "knock it off"; nothing. Because once she gets a rise out of him, she will win.
I just don't get it. I've
I just don't get it. I've never done a thing to this woman. He dropped his daughter off to her and she said "why didn't she call me last night? oh I bet it's because of your slut" and he just drove off. he hates confrontation. I was very angry and told him he better stand up to her. He is now! He better or I'm out. I can't put myself in an unhealthy atmosphere especially when it's not mine to deal with.
I know what it means.... it
I know what it means....
it means she hasnt graduated high school yet!
She is clearly jealous of the
She is clearly jealous of the relationship you have with her ex. I'm in the same situation: BF's ex cheated on him 3 times so he left her. Once he got a new girlfriend (me), she started getting all mouthy with her snide remarks. One recent example: "I hear trampy is pregnant again. That's gonna be 5 kids you'll have to pay child support for" (on learning we're expecting another baby 6 years after they split up, AND assuming that WE'LL split up too). She's also called me every name in the book. For the last 6 years, she's been on welfare, had her utilities cut off numerous times, has had to deal with Children's Aid, has to hide her current on/off BF FROM Children's Aid (as he's deemed unfit to be around the kids), has LOTS of drama going on with her neighbours, and just basically lives a crappy life. US, on the other hand, are financially comfortable, our bills are always paid on time, we live in a nice rental house that will eventually become ours as owners, and we've never had to deal with any type of authority. So clearly, she wants to live the "easy life" again with my BF (not that she still loves him - she's not even remotely capable of that emotion). Many, if not ALL, exes are like that - their own lives are miserable since destroying their relationships with their exes and are jealous of how happy their exes are now, so they resort to immature name-calling. We just let it go and laugh about it - she HAD the good life but she left it for a few cheap thrills. Whatever issues she has are HER problem!
She is abusive and has the
She is abusive and has the mental capacity of a bratty 12 year old child. This is probably the reason he is no longer with her, she is abusive and has mental problems. Ignore it! Don't read the texts and your Husband should file a complaint for harassment against her. This can be done in a couple of ways, one is to get a restraining order against her, one that stipulates contact outside of child related communications. Anything that has NOTHING to do with the organization/schedules or medical emergencies of the kids then she is violating the order and is punishable by law.
The second option/step is to file a slanders suit in conjunction to the restraining order, this will WORK and put her manipulative and ILLEGAL behavior in check!