After 3 YEARS and THOUSANDS of dollars later... WE WON! Ha ha ha! Bm settled! She fought us for 2 years only to settle for less time and more CS! Either way ss will have consistency and we have our lives back! My Hub and I have not been married for 3years yet so ya'll do the math. We have found a new found low for each other, WE MADE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Both still alive an well and still married! Thank you for all of the support ladies and gents! I would not have made it if I did not have people who understand!