I know this sounds horrible, but I aboslutely hate my SD'18 with a passion! I have been her SM for 5 years, since she was 13. I loved the kid in the beginning UNTIL I started to realize how she was and see her true colors (which took about 2 years).

My SD has always been highly manipulative. She's a user and a con artist and a huge liar who overly dramatizes everything. I noticed that the only time she ever made any effort to contact me or my DH is when she wanted something (which was entirely too often). As if her child support wasn't enough, my SD had her Grandmother and Aunts (BM is a loser in prison) call us constantly asking for things. Daddy always had to pay to get her highlights and hair done, buy her prom dresses, give her money to go out with her friends, pay for her monthly tanning package, pay for her school clothes and suppplies, even had him buy her a new iPhone when they first came out and all sorts of stuff....SD was always buying Aunts, Grandma, her Sister and friends gifts during their birthdays and Holidays (probably with the money Daddy was wiring her) but NEVER so much as told her Dad Happy Fathers Day or gave him a card or anything....she never acknowledged his birthday, nothing! She never was one to say Thank You or act appreciative of anything. Just begged and begged for whatever she could get. SD always lived 4 hours away in the next state over, when we would invite her to come stay with us during breaks from school and Summer she would deny coming choosing to stay with her friends instead and acted like she hardly wanted to see us EXCEPT during Christmas time because she knew she would have nice gifts.

SD got old enough to drive and boy did the begging for money really start then.....constantly texting DH asking for gas money, saying she needed money for school projects, etc etc. I wanted to put a stop to her idea that DH was an ATM machine....so I talked to DH about things and we bought her a Wal-Mart Debit Card so we could track her purchases without her knowing we could see the account....he sends money for her supposed "gas" needs and low and behold.....the money went to Sonic, Hot Topic, Starbucks, and a few gift shops in Gatlinburg, TN when she went on a little date with her BF!! When the money stopped coming after we saw the way she had been spending it....SD'18 suddenly starts writing hateful innuendos about us on her Facebook page....we begin getting calls from Auntie and Grandma asking why we don't give a shit about SD and how come we are not "taking care of her".....SD gets jealous last Summer because we have my younger Sister and SD's half Sister (my other SD'now 15) with us for the Summer. SD'18 bombards our phones with texts asking for money, DH turns her down and SD'18 actually changes her phone number, deletes and blocks us from Facebook and makes a new Twitter page where she has continued to bash us constantly online since she completely estranged herself from us (because we denied giving her more "gas money").

To top it off we later recieve a phone call from BM (who was fresh out of prison) cursing at us, threatening to sue us for child support (which has been paid all along PLUS much more) and states that DH and I are "cruel and unusual" to SD!!! We later hear from OSD'15 that SD'18 has always talked badly about us behind our backs and bragged about how she could get whatever she wanted, we also hear lies where SD'18 had told people how we were mean to her, made her cry and all sorts of blatant, outrageous LIES. Mega Bitch SD'18 slanders us constantly till this day on her pathetic little Twitter account and we haven't even seen or spoken to her in over a year now!