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i found a bad stepmom!

dispiritedstepmom2011's picture

my longtime bestfriend of 15 years had her son our freshman year of high school by a 21yr old POS. she changed instantly and went into mom-mode, which is not easy for a 14yr old to do. anyways, 4 years ago the restraining order her father had on the sperm-donor was lifted and he contacted her about seeing their son. she was reluctant, but didnt want her son (who had been asking for years about his bio father) to find out he tried contacting and he never saw him.

long story short, this guy is STILL a loser. he is registered as a sex offender. he doesnt work and is on pills. they have been going through a custody battle the last 2yrs. her sons stepmother is no prize either, but thinks she is 'something' cause she is in the marines. from the stories we got from my friends son, his bio and step family is pretty dysfunctional. but thats another blog.

over the last several months, his stepmother has been badmouthing my friend to him. calling her a whore, told him his mother will die a whore, that she doesnt love him and never wanted him ect.

my friend is an accountant for a company she has been with for years now. she graduated high school with honors, has always held a job and maintained her own residence since she was 18. she has raised her son with min. help from anyone. he is a great kid with christian values great grades and is on his schools bball team. this is cause of his MOTHER...nothing to do with the bio-asshole-sperm-donor or his fugly cunt of a wife.

its takin everything i have to not contact this bitch and give her what for. i know if i do i would be stoopin to her level, and i know my best friend wouldnt appreciate it only cause who knows what they would be like to her son....i simply told my friends son that his stepmom was trash, trash likes to talk trash, and for him to be classy.

liks's picture

Yeah my ex husbands new bitch bad mouths me to my son too....fn told her that I sent him out to work at the age of 14 cos I refused to give him any money....the bio father contributes his bit too....

bloody hell....I used to give my son my debit and credit card to go get money from the atm when ever he wanted up to the age of 18 which is wen he left to live with bitch and dad....when I reminded my son of this he said 'oh yeah thats right...you did too'

wish I knew how to handle that sort of stuff....

dispiritedstepmom2011's picture

u are correct, the charges were for knocking up my friend, she was 14 he was 21. but he is registered.

Kilgore SMom's picture

Does he have court order visitation? If not she should flat out refuse to let son go see him any more. The most I would think a court would give him is supervised visits. I'm not clear on how old the son is. But if he's been with his mom all this time he probably realizes that his mom is a good person. He will know whos is right and who is wrong. If he is old enough he could tell the judge how he feels.