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purpledaisies's picture

OMG this girl started here at the same bar I work at not too long ago.

First I must say she has been caught is so many lies its crazy. Mostly about her life like she's been bregho 9xs. She's only 21! Plus she was preggo a month ago then lost it.

So anyway she came in tonight all butt hurt that her dad went to a theme park near where we live with out her. She doesn't live with him or her mom. Plus according to her he cut her out of his life.

So I ask her why would she want to ho with some one that wrote you off? She system it is a family thing they do every year. Again I ask why would she go after he cut her out at 16? According to her he is mean and should have invited her. :jawdrop:

I tell her she is 21 and lives on her own and time to grow up and get over the fact that daddy has a gf and will be doing thus with her just like she is with her bf!

She didn't like that too much and started talking that it goes deeper than that. So I ask her and she says she don't want to talk about it that it is bad.

I ask her again if it is that bad why would she want anything to do with him. She says b/c he is her dad.
OK you can't have it both ways either you get over the past or you be done with him. But you can't hold that shit over his head.

So what if he went to the theme park with his gf life happens and we don't always get what we want or have it our way.

She walked out at that point.

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chokinonlemons2u's picture

Shit. That sounds like Snooki!!!! Does she have three siblings and two stepsiblings and fifty tats?

chokinonlemons2u's picture

Not Snooki. This time. Lol. I have a boy and girl.from ex and a boy with DH. She only claims her brother and sister not from me

purpledaisies's picture

I'm still can't wrap my head around adults who think they should be invited to every freaking thing that their parents do.

Pisses me off. I did tell her that I have a DD 20 and we went conoeong and I didn't invite her. Why would I since she doesn't live with me? She did call the day of and asked what we were doing so u told her. And guess what she did not invite herself nor did she get butt hurt that we went without her.

I asking told her that she does lots of things with out her dad so why can't he? Plus she went to Hollywood according to her and did nit invite her dad! Hummm intersecting huh? LOL

twopines's picture

So if he truly cut her out of his life, how did she find out where he went, lol. Something tells me if daddy had wanted her to come with him to work on a Habitat for Humanity home instead of going to a theme park, she would have "been busy".

emotionaly beat up's picture

My husband and I went to Hawaii. My three were rapt. Drove us to the airport wished us well. Rang us when we were away, sent photos of the kids and kept an eye on the house. His three cracked the shits. Same reasoning, why should dad take his wife, if anyone should be going with daddy, it's me. Spoilt brats.

purpledaisies's picture

Yep can't stand people like that. I'm so lucky that my dh set the president that that wouldn't fly around us. He told his boys that they do things with their mom that we don't do and life goes on wheather they ate here or not.

Plus I was older and out of the house before any if my siblings were and my parents took them to the same theme Parks lots of times with out me. I did not get butt hurt over it. It was life.

emotionaly beat up's picture

Bulletproof, I'd cope with younger kids being jealous. My husbands kids are early, mid and late thirties and we had this going down. Why, because he raised them to be spoilt, rude, selfish, self centred, ungrateful brats, with an over inflated sense of entitlement.

2 of them have partners and children of their own. Idiots.

purpledaisies's picture

Wow then dh and I are horrible parents as we often go out when I get off work to spend time together. We also bring the left overs home.

But wait none of our kids say crap about it. They just don't say anything and would never dream of touching it. Just so disrespectful.

But ours were taught respect.

purpledaisies's picture

Outtahere I do I have called her out several times in regard to her dad and mom. She even bragged about starting to smoke at 12. I told her that wasn't something she should brag about. Then she says oh you don't understand the life I've had and blah blah blah. I told her that it wasn't an excuse to start smoking or do stupid crap or say stupid crap.

Anon2009's picture

Sounds like she needs counseling. I hope she finds a way to get some before it's too late

whatwasithinkin's picture

Thats every step daughter here. BM moved 500 miles away, took both girls (we now have sd 17 but at the time she was 11 and the other sd was 8. As you might know down south school starts mid August, we dont start here until after Labor Day. Our vacation is always the last week in August because it is cheaper.

BM had the balls to tell us we needed to change it and then add an additional drive of 5 hours so that SD could come with us after all, wait for it~they deserve a vacation with their father. Yes her words.

My words: when was the last time she took them on vacation, ummmm 8 years ago.

I think BM do a good job at boosting the entitlement with these kids. Sad but true

hereiam's picture

At 21, I would have rather of gone to a theme park with my friends, not my dad (especially if he cut me off) and his girlfriend.

I bet she didn't really want to go, just mad that she was not invited so she could turn him down.