And she just called DH crying
I have had it with SD16 today. DH just called me and he said that SD16 told him that she can't finish shoveling because she has no boots to wear. She said the reason she has no boots is because imjustthemaid gave DD11 her snowboots. (My DD11's snowboots broke a few weeks ago, I haven't had the extra money to get her new ones and my old ones fit her just fine so I told her just to wear them for the rest of the season) SD is all jealous that DD is wearing my snowboots so she called daddy crying.
Meanwhile they are DONE shoveling so what the hell is she talking about???? DH calls and says I need to find snowboots for SD to wear or he has to go buy her a pair. Oh yes this is what it comes down to. SD wants to go shopping. I hate this kid so much.
I told DH that I am a size 8 and SD is a 9 1/2. We are NOT the same size!! SD tries to lie and say she is an 8 also. Clearly she is not!!
So she tells DH that she had to shovel in cloth boots (??) and her poor wittle feet are cold and wet AND she has been out there for TWO hours all alone with no help!! WHAT???? My DD11 has been out there for hours!! She was out there for about 40 minutes before I finally got SD to get out of the house and help.
Well I had it. I screamed at DH that SD is once again manipulating him into buying her something she doesn't need, they are DONE shoveling AND DD11 did more than half of the entire driveway and SD stood there complaining most of the time. I was watching them from my window.
So I stormed downstairs, banged on SD's door and said what is this shit you are telling your father about you can't shovel because you have no boots and how you were out there all alone. She panicked and was like I didn't say that, I am gonna wear my Uggs today, I didn't say I was all alone out there. Lies, lies, lies!
I fucking hate this kid with every bone in my body. I am so sick of her manipulating things her way all the time. She didn't think I was gonna call her out on it or that DH would tell me what she said. So if he never said anything he would have thought that poor SD did all the shoveling and DD did nothing. Pisses me off!!!
Then she told DH well if anymore needs to be done, I am not doing it, have DD do it because I have no boots. Ugh!!!
I just wish she would disappear out of my life forever. I should have woken her up this morning and made sure that DH dropped her off on his way to work. This is why I can't deal with this kid. Its all lies, she makes shit up all the time and I am so sick of her shit. DH is on my shit list too. Fuck her, I am not giving her MY Uggs when she has her own!!!
She wanted DH to demand I hand over my Uggs to her. Fuck no!! She's still mad because she only has 3 pairs and asked for another pair for Christmas but we got her a brand new ipod touch instead and couldn't afford to get both. So she wants to take mine (which are 6 years old) so she is just crazy!!
DH mentioned one of his guys might be heading towards Crazyville so I begged him to have him pick up SD on his way and get her the fuck out of my house now!! He better show up. And I can't even drive away because DH has my car and there is a foot of snow on the ground.
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Oh wait we bought her Ugg
Oh wait we bought her Ugg moccasins for Christmas SIZE 8!! When I bought them I tried them on. They were too tight for me so there is no way they fit her. It was on her list size 8 so we gave them to her. Christmas morning she was trying so hard to squeeze them on but they did not fit. She stuck them in the box, lied and said they fit and has never worn them! They were $100. I even offered to exchange them for her but she insisted they fit! She is nuts!!!!!
You purposely bought her
You purposely bought her shoes that don't fit?? Now THAT is a Cinderella moment. You're just lowering yourself to her level. You're the adult. If's she's manipulating your DH and telling tales to him, the best course of action is for you and DH to sit down and talk to her together. This way, she can't lie about it.
My SD used to do that. She would go back to her mother's house and tell her these crazy stories. Turned out she was doing that because she thought she was making her mother happy if she told her how awful it was at our home.
We nipped that right in the bud. When we took her back to her mother's house, we addressed it with BM and SD at that moment. She quit making up the stories.
NO no no!! Her Christmas list
NO no no!! Her Christmas list said size 8. I bought size 8. I brought them home and tried them on and they were tight. I tried to return them but they had no size 9. Then DH asked SD if she was sure and she said she definitely wants a size 8, she tried on her friends and they fit. So DH said just give them to her and if she questions you show her the list where she wrote down size 8 so she can see if was her mistake. But she won't admit they don't fit. I offered twice to exchange them and she says they fit. Its crazy!!
SD likes people to feel bad for her. She doesn't care who it is. She has been doing this for years. She goes to MIL and cries that we haven't bought her new clothes in years and we buy DD everything. Then DH calls her out on it and she apologizes. Then she does it again. She doesn't have visitation with BM and we don't speak to BM so there is none of that with her thankfully.
DH used to call her out on it and she would lie and lie and then admit it. Its so frustrating.
Ugh - I hate her too!
Ugh - I hate her too!
Its very easy to hate her!!
Its very easy to hate her!! She has no redeeming qualities!
Geez, she sucks. I'm sorry
Geez, she sucks. I'm sorry honey. What fresh Hell you have to endure with this brat.
I swear she better be getting
I swear she better be getting picked up soon!! I'm hiding in my room. I don't even want to see her face. I am so sick of her crying to daddy about me!!
I am so glad SD16 doesn't
I am so glad SD16 doesn't live here anymore...She pulled this type of stuff all the time. Lied to DH and BM about me and finally got what she wanted to live with BM. You need to stop taking her crap and maybe she will get the hint to live with BM fulltime. My life got much easier when she did. Drama left the building.
^^^Yep - I'm so happy SD14
^^^Yep - I'm so happy SD14 doesn't come around anymore. It sucks that we're going to likely see an increase in CS and that will hurt financially, but it's worth not having the drama and tension in my own space, you know?
She hates BM and BM lives in
She hates BM and BM lives in a tiny apartment with her two other kids and gets evicted every 6 months. But SD wants to live with BM's mother very badly!! DH won't let her go. I wish he would. My life would be so much better!! BM's mother lives in our old town and SD's bf lives in that town too.
I am just praying she moves out on her 18th birthday!! Before the door hits her in the ass I will have her room changed over for BD4 to move into!!
I wouldn't have put up with
I wouldn't have put up with near as much as you. I woyld have called her out on every thing. I would have let her know from the start she wasn't going to win with me.
Yep with the boots I would have gotten every boot she gas a took a pic and sent it to dh. Every little lie that came out of her mouth I woyld have proven it to be a lie. Every time she tried to malipulate I would call it out. But that's just me.
I don't put up with it from ky kids so I refuse to put up with it from a kid that's not mine.
My skid tried it a few times calling daddy behind my back I blasted him for it and took his xbox for the day.
Sounds to me like your SD needs get internet taken for a very long time.
I meant to reply to the boots
I meant to reply to the boots thing earlier-she hides all of her clothes and anything nice she owns at BM's mothers house which is where she likes to spend the weekends so she can see her bf.
Last year she took every single piece of clothing she owned over there. Then she cried to DH that she didn't have a stitch of clothes to wear. Luckily I was on to it before hand and warned him. Then he called her out and it and she admitted it.
Usually she gives all of her clothes to DD11. Then she watches DD hang them in her closet and she runs to DH crying that DD has a huge closet full of clothes and she has nothing. This he still falls for until I drag him downstairs and show him that DD has a closet full of SD's clothes and the other half is BD4's clothes!!!
This kid is so manipulative. I am so sick of it. Now she is tweeting about me again. Of course she doesn't say its about me but its pretty obvious!
It really makes no sense at
It really makes no sense at all!! She lies both ways too for instance she has all size 9 1/2 sneakers in her closet. At the beginning of the school year she cried to DH that her feet are bigger than that and she needs new sneakers. Of course DH fell for it and bought her size 9 1/2 which is exactly what she had!!
Then she lies and says she is an 8. Thats a huge difference. Thats why I kept offering to exchange the Uggs for her. We spend alot of money and I at least want her to wear them!! I have not seen them once since Christmas. Waste of money. I think Uggs can sometimes run big, but I tried them on my size 8 feet and they were so tight I could barely get them on. They probably stretch a bit, but not a size and a half!!
She never makes any sense in what she does. It drives me crazy!