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Submitted by steppystep on Sat, 01/19/2013 - 3:17pm

My husband's taking step daughters to their aunt's.. he said that it's for tonight and a few days maybe..then we'll see what next It's not the aunt they lived at but another one close to us..
He just called her to ask if it's ok and she agreed.. She will let them do whatever they want and give them whatever they ask for.. So they're bursting with joy
but I don't care as long as they're away from me and my baby

And he told them to take their stuff with them but they will not do that.. I know why..their aunt is going to buy them anything they like..
silly woman doesn't know what kind of girls she's praising

But whatever

glad that tonight i can sleep in peace

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Submitted by StickAFork on Sat, 01/19/2013 - 3:25pm

So they lived with another aunt, and now a different one?

Is it possible that the SDs are very angry with their bioparents and are acting out?

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Submitted by steppystep on Sat, 01/19/2013 - 3:30pm

Their mother is dead.
They insisted they go live with another aunt back then and wouldn't talk to husband untill he let them..

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Submitted by StickAFork on Sat, 01/19/2013 - 7:35pm

Well, we know who rules that roost.
No surprise they got what they wanted again.

I don't understand some parents. AT ALL.

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Submitted by notagain2012 on Sat, 01/19/2013 - 3:26pm

Glad to hear you get a break, but its not a solution. He should have called the cops. And he needs to fill the aunt in so she doesn't reward them. That's like rewarding them for acting like psychotic assholes. Guess thats part of the problem.

Maybe you guys should ask the aunt to buy some new stuff for you to replace what they broke.

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Submitted by steppystep on Sat, 01/19/2013 - 3:29pm

I wrote about our cops and their effectiveness on my previous post.. :sick:

Husband told the aunt what they did..she'll still buy them stuff. She's done it before to her (now husband) boyfriend's brother's son. He gets into a fight at a game, we ALL know it she buys him stuff when he visits her or she visits him.

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Submitted by Lalena75 on Sat, 01/19/2013 - 6:12pm

So they won, they sure showed you guys. An ass tanning would of been better than well I don't wan to deal, and I don't want to give them their stuff back so I'll let someone else give them everything they want. Brilliant.

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Submitted by whatwasithinkin on Sat, 01/19/2013 - 6:24pm

I can understand the feeling of letting them off the hook by them going to a family members. DH removed SD17 from my face by taking her to her grandmothers today after seeing that was about to explode.

He gets her out of here every single time the same way. Sad part is...the bitch always comes back. As bad as he knows it is here with her, he wouldnt even think of letting her live there. He is hung up on "his responsibility to her which may cost him his marriage in the end.

So although I understand the relief your feeling, I am also sure of the dread you will feel of them coming back

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Submitted by oneoffour on Sun, 01/20/2013 - 4:36pm

I agree 100%. If you want to stay with this man make alternative arrangements in case you predecease him and your child is still a minor. Either this man is not emotionally equipped to parent (because obviously his daughters have no respect for him because they have seldom lived alone with him)or is willing to pass on the hard work to someone else.

If this is all true and he has passed the kids around between relatives ... has nay professional addressed their grief over losing their mother? How would you feel if you died and he foisted your child off under different guises so he could find a new partner?

These girls have no respect for him because they don't know him as their father or Dad. That being said, you need to make sure you and your baby are protected.