This past Fri afternoon I drove SD22 to work, so she could work a double shift. She said Thurs night was good for only working 4 hours, and she made over $200.
So Sat morning she says she needs to go to Urgent Care. She asked if she could use our Flexcard. (This is a healthcare flexible spending account card. Your employers take the money out of your check pre-tax, FYI for those that don't know.) I asked if it was a slow night at work or something, she said no it was a pretty good night. Then SD22 looks at me and says.."So you're saying I probably need to use my own money?" I nodded my head yes. She said it was cool, then after about 30 secs SD22 said she will just go to the doctor another day, and stormed upstairs to her room. She stayed in her room for the next 4 hours while we took care of her son.

Guess what her co-pay is for a doctor's office visit? It's $10. I told my wife that I'm tired of her using our flexcard, because last year I put over $500 on it and we didn't even get to use it. When she stormed upstairs, she yelled to DW that she has to save her money so she can "move the fuck out of here". We were supposed to have "the talk" with her that weekend about her going to see a therapist, but my wife kept chickening out. I told DW this is the perfect example of why she needs to go, because she has no concept of reality.

Later that night, she came downstairs to talk to DW. She said that DW always told her she could use the Flexcard, and everything was fine until we took it back from her. DW told her that things are different now that she's been working for quite a while, and she actually brings home more money than we do. DW also told her that she doesn't remember telling SD22 that she could ALWAYS use the card. SD22 makes the remark..."What's the matter, are you getting too old to remember?" Luckily I was not in the room or I would've snapped on SD22 for making that comment.

DW tells SD22 that she thinks its a good idea for her to see a therapist. SD22 blows up saying that DW has no right to talk about her to her therapist, and therapy isn't for everybody. DW says that the reason she is in therapy is BEACAUSE of her and all the bullshit she has put us through. SD22 then screams how she doesn't wanna be in this "fucking house" and she is trying to save her money to move the "fuck out". Once again, If I had been there to hear it I would've told her that nobody is forcing her to be here, and there is the door. SD22 stormed upstairs, saying she WAS going to work, but now she's gonna go out with her friend. Once again, her doctor's co-pay is only $10.

I came downstairs a few mins later and DW told me about the conversation. I was a little upset that DW allowed SD22 to talk to her that way, but what else is new. SD22 then came downstairs being all nice saying she was gonna go out tonight. She literally was acting like an argument never happened. CRAZY BITCH. That next morning, she and her friend were trying to joke with DW about how their night went, and all these clubs they went to, and how expensive ($50) the cabfare was. I just ignored it because I can't even stand to look at her. When she went upstairs, I told my wife this is another example of why her crazy ass needs therapy. We were gonna try to have another talk with her, but she then left in the afternoon and won't be back till tomorrow. If it was up to me since I know she won't go to therapy I would just give her 30 days to move out, but I'm trying to be nice about it. We legally have to give her 30 days since she has mail coming there. So either she goes to therapy and has until April 1st to get out, or she refuses and we give her 30 days. Either way she is getting the hell out of our house.