I really had planned to discuss with my husband my position regarding giving BM more than what is ordered in the CO when he arrived home from work. Nothing ever goes according to plan lol. A "friend" stopped by about an hour before DH came home from work with the intention of "swimming with her kid for just a little while". I did tell her that I had a serious personal matter to take care of when DH came home so... Next thing I know, she's leaving and her kid (who is HORRIBLE) is staying the night so she can go spend the night with her boyfriend! WTF! She never asked, she just assumed even though I told her I had plans. My DH can not STAND this child and really doesn't want her around when he is home. Great! that's going to make it so much easier to plead my case. (This 'friend' has been told she's no longer welcome here, sigh... that was the last of my "support group"). When he pulled into the garage, I walked out there to meet him (Take his bag and lunch box, kiss on the check, "how was your dad dear" sorta thing) I could already tell he was in a foul mood. Then I informed him that devils spawn was here, that made it worse. I decided to just wait until another day when he would be a little more receptive of the discussion. WELLLLLL.... this morning I get a text from BM saying that the girls have lice AGAIN!! it seems like every few months they end up with it and no one knows why. SHe drops them off like normal and tells me that she's going to come home early from work to treat their hair and clean the house. ummm so they have live lice and you want to drop them off HERE?? thanks for that. SO I spend all morning tearing my house apart to deep clean again. Check my 15 yr old daughter's hair, its clean. Then husband texts me to tell me someone may be by to look at the boat we have for sale, could I go clean the windows and vacuum the carpets and such in the boat to make it look better? oh sure I'll get right on that after I clean everything in my house with bleach, grrrr. SO while I'm standing in the hot sun cleaning the boat, I get another text for DH, BM wants him to pay for half of the stuff to treat for lice, PLUS could we please do this complicated treatment for her on friday night ( it's our weekend)? She would do it today but it's very time consuming and she wont have time in the morning to comb it all out before she goes to work. WOW. Did I miss a meeting where I've become the house bitch? So I sorta snapped back a hatefully toned text to DH, " We are not the BANK OF B*****. The lice is not coming from here. And I'm busy Friday night and Saturday morning with MY OWN KIDS!" Ok so that wasn't exactly the best course of action. He snaps back that it's HIS MONEY and HE WILL SPEND IT ON WHATEVER HE WANTS! wow. This is getting totally out of hand. So a while later he send me a text saying that he's staying over at work and won't be home until 11pm. I am just so frustrated!!!! I have no family and have pretty much had to cut ties with all of my real friends. I am so lost and alone on this and this WOMAN is going to push me out of my husband's life with her ignorance and greed!!