Permission to hit BM granted.... :)

My BF said last night after BM made a comment that if she were to touch him, make a move on him, or do anything else I am allowed to knock her ass out. That makes me feel better... I think she would have to like try to kiss him or something before I take it that far, but I feel a little more powerful.

So the comment that brought this on... My BF gets his daughter every Wednesday and every other Sunday, well the 23rd he was supposed to have SD1 but we had tickets to a game and BM needed this last weekend off so they switched and last Wednesday he had to work so BM kept her. So on Saturday my BF had to work until 5 and BM dropped off SD1 early with his parents. Then last night she was "caught in a snowstorm" and was going to be late. Asked if she could use BF's car seat cause hers was at her house. BF made the comment that he didn't want his car seat to smell like cigarettes, BM didn't like that, so we dropped her off at BM's house with her mom. Well I guess when all this was being sorted BM made the comment to BF that "You are picking her up on Tuesday right" BF obviously said yes, and she says "Good I haven't seen you in two weeks."

Im not real sure why she "has" to see him, they have spoke on the phone, its like she likes to see him or something. But the good thing was that BF gave me permission that if she makes me uncomfortable with her comments I can hit her... I am assuming that her comment was just a back thought, but BF reassured me that there is "NO CHANCE IN HELL" lol... Its in caps cause he yelled it. I guess its progress. He even said that after we get married and settled if BM isn't working or in a committed relationship that he wants US to fight to give his daughter a better life. Im ok with that. She deserves a chance. Not that I would let him take completely away from BM, she needs her mom, but at least most the time we can know she is safe.

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I will tell you the same

I will tell you the same thing I told someone else who wanted to knock out BM...

You wanna borrow my pink boxing gloves so you look cute when you do it?

~*~When you kiss ass, your breath smells like sh*t~*~

I think a good old fashioned

I think a good old fashioned knuckle to face punch would do me the best. Something about nailing her in the face would make my year... I want to leave the imprint of my knuckles on her overly make-uped face. I would probably be washing eyeliner off for the next two weeks, but SO worth it

Life isn't about the days you have, its about what you do with the days you have.

If she wears that much

If she wears that much makeup, you'll probably just end up hurting your hand on the crust of her face. i think you should do the boxing gloves idea. No sense in breaking your hand on heavily caked/hardened covergirl:)

"Venting without the desire to look within and improve your situation is simply venting to hear yourself bitch."

..."I'm not mean, you're just a sissy."

Or you could cover your hand

Or you could cover your hand with a crapload of cotton balls that are covered with makeup remover & punch her with that. How lovely would she be?

"There are two things over which you have complete dominion, authority, and control over - your mind and your mouth".

Forget the punching just

Forget the punching just hose her down with a power washer and watch her melt. Keep a loaded super soaker water gun with you. I have one in my glove box for my road rages.

You keep a super soaker in

You keep a super soaker in your glove box???? HILARIOUS mental picture..

WATER GUN DRIVE BY!!!

~*~When you kiss ass, your breath smells like sh*t~*~

LMAO. Thanks that made me

LMAO. Thanks that made me laugh, I now have every intention to carry one for road rage, that is great.

But I have seen this chick go swimming and come out fully caked still. She wears more than a downtown hooker.

Life isn't about the days you have, its about what you do with the days you have.

I hope this is all

I hope this is all hypothetical venting "oh I wish I could" stuff. It will do no one any good for you to punch her. Especially like "if she makes me uncomfortable with her comments I can hit her." Where it cannot even be remotely self defense. You get a record- and restraining order....not good, not worth it.

"The beauty of life is, while we cannot undo what is done, we can see it, understand it, learn from it and change, So that every new moment is spent not in regret, guilt, fear or anger, but in wisdom, understanding, and love." -Jennifer Edwards