So, DH goes on disability and we sell our city house and buy 6.3 acres. We move in two days and start farming in 2 months. We're building an extra half on just for my SDs and are moving to within 1 hour of them instead of 2.5 hours. BM knows all this and tells us that she's getting a job who knows where. She was with Families First program and forced to go to school because she couldn't get a job. She went to MedVance for phlebotomy, flunked out, and is almost graduating on her second time. She grads soon and has to train in other areas on the job for a few weeks or so. My concern is, what if she gets a job further away from where we're moving?

And instead of taking us up on our offer of keeping the kids for her while she goes to school and travels on internship for a few months, I guess she's afraid we'll run off to Mexico with them. Yeah, we're going to sell our house and buy a farm in order to run off with her children. The only reason I can come up with her thinking that way is she has run off with them countless times, and tried one last attempt to go to Michigan. She wasn't even hiding her agenda when she told the kids, "I came back b/c I realized you have to go to school and they would find you that way." And then, get this, instead of spending time with them....she's always leaving them with her inlaws or at their friends' houses b/c she'd rather do her own thing. Seriously, leave them with us, we actually give a rat's patoot, and visit them when you're selfish heart feels like feeding the puppies. That's what they are to her, puppies.

OK-the rant's over. Now, seriously, she can't keep a job period, seriously can't keep a job. I am concerned that she's going to move all over the place working and we'll be stuck spending a fortune on time and gas just to "visit" them until they're eventually so far away we give up and pay cs. Am I just up a creek here?