My SS's BM has planned for SS to go to a horse show this weekend and is asking if BF can just pick SS up Sunday morning instead of getting him for the whole weekend. SS is in a summer enrichment camp also, and will have to be back Sunday night so he can go back to school Monday morning.

The agreement has always been unspoken that on Mother's/Father's Day and parents' birthdays, SS spends the entire weekend with that parent even if it falls on the other parent's weekend. He just spent the entire weekend with BM on Mother's Day this year when it was supposed to be BF's weekend by the rotation.

I just don't think it's fair. I feel like BM continues to push the envelope on these issues to see how much BF will let her get away with since she knows he is trying to be as nice as possible so she won't screw up our summer vacation next month to Florida.

I would NEVER do something like this to BF if we were to split up. She just drives me crazy!