SD left in the middle of the night 1.5years ago.  Didn't speak to father for 7 months.  Now in May has all of a sudden started coming around.  I am on complete edge.  He has been desperate for her to be back in his life.  I am struggling with his expectations of me after a lot of difficult circumstances and what I feel is very disrespectful and mean behaviour toward her father and myself.  There are so many details to explain but the bottom line is I don't know if I can accept her the way he wants me to.  I am struggling to not view her behaviour as manipulative.