Still looking after 30 year old
What do you think of a dh employing the 30yr who still lives with the birth mother who is constantly late for work but continues to employee him, when I put my opinion forward how he needs to stand on his own two feet. Mum and dad are still looking after him, dh answer to that is I like him working for me so I can keep an eye on him and he is looking after his mum, oh please, becomes all defensive,omg he still dealing with guilt for leaving the bm. I cringe when he talks about him, just doesn't get it , I have no relationship with him and I have no feelings whatsoever towards him, he was the first born, over indulged, over praised child who still hasn't become a man. He has always been resentful towards our natural children.
The 30 year old creeps me out.