Backstory since I'm new: I am married almost 4 years to DH39 with SS11 (lives with us full-time), and BS3 (who is special needs). DH and HCBM are lazy parents and expect me to pick up the slack without any of the rewards or benefits. They expect ME to keep an eye on his grades and "tutor" accordingly JUST because I'm getting my bachelor's in elementary and special education.

Today is SS11 birthday, and dear God, if I don't lose my mind. If I could tell them all, it would be:

DH: