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Submitted by tankh21 on Fri, 06/16/2017 - 7:55am

So after yesterday's drama and everything else that has happened since the skids summer visitation with DH. I have come to the realization that there is no changing my DH or the way he parent his kids so I am thinking I need to try my best not to stress myself out over this and I am going to try my hardest not to. It won't be easy but, I am at least going to give it a try. What I think is right my DH thinks is not a big deal so I am thinking what is the point of even saying anything to him anymore.

Just dont know...

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Submitted by tankh21 on Thu, 06/15/2017 - 8:14am

So YSS made a comment to me on Sunday and said that "Dad is going to become addicted to this video game so he will be spending less time with you now." I only saw red when he said that and told him to get out of my face. He told DH he was joking with me and of course DH's little angel and say or do no wrong so of course I was told that I needed to grow up for getting upset that a 10 year old said that to me.

Update

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Submitted by tankh21 on Mon, 06/12/2017 - 11:43am

So Update to my earlier post. DH said why couldn't I just let things go about SS and I said it just keeps happening and you are doing nothing about it and he said that SS didn't mean anything by what he said that he really was just joking. I said ok then he could've just said that you are addicted to the video game now and left it at that he didn't have to add that you wouldn't be spending any time with me anymore. DH paused and did well he probably is jealous and thinks I don't spend enough time with him. Here is an example of what I have to deal with even.

What do you think?

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Submitted by tankh21 on Mon, 06/12/2017 - 6:50am

DH went to a fishing tournament this weekend so he was gone on Friday night and came home late on Saturday night. I was watching the skids since they are with us until June 30th. OSS wanted to play a game on the TV in the living room and YSS feels that he owns the TV and that is his territory so all they do is fight over it. So all day long that is what my Saturday was like. So YSS comes and knocks on my door and tells me that he threw up the tea he was drinking so I was genuinely concerned and took his temperature, gave him some pepto bismol and told him to drink some water.

Yeah.....

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Submitted by tankh21 on Thu, 06/08/2017 - 6:35am

Skids are here for a whole month this summer and are eating us out of house and home. DH told them that we will buy junk food once a week and it is enough for a week and they have already eaten it all. I wonder how BM gets by because these kids will not eat any home cooked meals which is what DH and I make and what we grew up on. DH is so tired of struggling with this food thing and then they complain they are hungry and DH just tells them well we cooked dinner so you can eat that. I hope one day they realize that they aren't getting their way on this.

BM showing up unannounced?

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Submitted by tankh21 on Tue, 06/06/2017 - 8:52am

So if BM were to just show up at your house without coordinating it with DH would you call the cops to escort her off the property. She has been told several times not to just show up without letting DH know that she is coming? How would that impact the skids though seeing the cops come escort their mother of their dad's property?

She just wants her own way I think....

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Submitted by tankh21 on Mon, 06/05/2017 - 8:15am

So the summer has begins and so has the 30 days visitation with the skids. So BM was pissed off last Thursday night because DH didn't pick up the skids so she had the skids call DH and ask if he was picking them up he just told them that he will would them pick on Friday June 2nd which was what he stated in the notification letter that he sent to BM back in April. I understand things change and sometimes schedules need to be rearranged but BM cannot look up anything she is just too lazy or wants everything her own way.

Is my DH out of line?

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Submitted by tankh21 on Thu, 06/01/2017 - 7:31am

So tonight is DH and I's last night of freedom before we get the skids for the next 30 days. Per the CO DH only picks up the skids on Thursday nights during the school year well guess what the skids last day of school was yesterday. Tomorrow is my birthday and DH and I's first wedding anniversary so I wanted to spend the evening with just us and he was like well the skids are expecting me to pick them up. I told him you are the one that wants to follow the CO so why are you not trying to follow it and this will be our last night to spend together. Then BM texts last night....

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