I came across this website, and said to my self. Where have ya been all my life! I've had an on going issue with my husbands daughters mother. Iv'e been with my husband for 9 yrs and we have a 5 yr old. She refuses to let us see his daughter, but is always asking for money! Does anyone have an ideas for me, to try to get visitation rights, or even joint custody/full.. Please help this has been an on going issue for the past 7 yrs!