First off I am a new member to this site but am glad I have a place to vent my frustrations, with others going through similar situations. I have been dating my boyfriend for a little over a year now, he has 4 kids 3 are all over the age of 18 so I don't really have to worry about raising them thats already done but the 4th is a little boy who will be 10 this month. I have a 4 yr old daughter.