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Whats your favourite moment?

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Submitted by morethanibargai... on Fri, 05/09/2014 - 2:37pm

Its Friday Bitches!!!!! Yay!!

Some of us will be happy because the skids are not coming this weekend, and some will be stressing because they ARE coming!
This will make scheduled visit #2 that SD13 is refusing to come to. I feel thankful for the stress free weekend, but sad for SO because he misses her.

Anyways to put a positive light on the weekend.....

What's your favourite skid moment? A positive one....a time where the skid surprised you and said something nice, showed compassion or basically just acted like a normal kid instead of a skid from hell...

What makes you stay?

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Submitted by morethanibargai... on Thu, 05/08/2014 - 7:24am

We all have had so much taken from us and have had to compromise so much.
We have sacrificed our homes, our privacy, money, time, personal space and sanity. We are tired, overworked, underpaid, underappreciated and not given the respect we deserve at times. We are all on here venting about this or that and are collectively ready to jump off a bridge at times.

So my question is.....What makes you stay? What makes all of this crap that we take worth it for you?
Not just, oh I love DH. What specifically?

I'm a bitch

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Submitted by morethanibargai... on Wed, 05/07/2014 - 7:48am

If you've been following my blog you will know that SD13 is refusing to come to our house. Her reasons have varied that we are mean (we have rules), she doesn't like that SO smokes, she's bored etc. Theres so much drama going on and so many issues that its just too much. She has basically cut off contact with us.

So lost

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Submitted by morethanibargai... on Tue, 05/06/2014 - 9:24am

I try to be a good partner. I try to support him and have SO's back as best I can in all aspects. I don't know how to do that this time. I do not agree with him this time.

Yesterday I texted SD13 and simply said "Hi. How are things". I got no response from her. I did however get a message from BM later that said "she would probably be better if her father called her instead of you". I'm not sure how she even texted me because I blocked her. I guess I didn't do it right. I'll have to fix that today.

Day 6

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Submitted by morethanibargai... on Mon, 05/05/2014 - 1:22pm

Day 6 since blocking BM from both of our phones.
Day 10 since either of us have heard from SD.
I texted her to say hi and see how she was, and not surprisingly she didn't answer me. SO won't call or text her. He wants nothing to do with her right now after what she did.

She's created an entitled, self involved monster

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Submitted by morethanibargai... on Mon, 04/28/2014 - 9:24am

So last week I posted that SD13 threw a fit on Thursday night, saying she didn't want to come to our house on the weekend blah blah blah
SO basically told her too bad, shes coming. We got down to the main reason she didn't want to come, which was because she knew she wouldn't be able to see her boyfriend over the weekend.
I tried to compromise with her saying she could ask her dad if the bf could come over for dinner or something, but that she wouldn't be allowed to go out with him alone. SO doesn't want her dating at all until shes 16. He's very old school.

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