Yes HI! Very new to this here but this site has to be perfect for me. I am a step mother for three years now. I am very attached to my children. yes they are mine. We have custody of them and they visit there mother in the summer. Usually they come back skinny, and behaving horrible. We always get them back to being themselves good healthy kids. I hate their mother because she just doesnt really truly seem to care. She goes months without talking to them. She sends 5 dollars in a birthday card and so on. Its pathetic oh yeah did i mention she does not pay child support. YEah.