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Easter Visitation, sigh

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Submitted by JustanotherSM17 on Sun, 03/24/2024 - 7:17pm

It's been a joy I must confess not having SD here for the amount of months that she refused her visitation. No drama , other then the drama MIL tries to bring in the house after talking to BM and SD14. This Easter is a long weekend with the kids having off Friday and Monday, I had a gut feeling that BM would try to get SD to come on a long weekend, it's not DH weekend. We have plans to go to my sisters house on Saturday to do a Easter egg hunt for the little kids ( my Bio son will be with his dad ) . Well SD texted DH asking if she could come for Easter, siggghhhhhh!

Just hours away from Family Vacay!

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Submitted by JustanotherSM17 on Sun, 03/10/2024 - 4:39pm

And I can not wait to hit the road!!!! It has been a stressful month at work and a stressful few days with MIL butting in the middle of DH and SD14. We have been spending the weekend prepping and packing for our week long trip to Florida so I have not had time for any extra dramatics. I'm sure MIL was not happy to learn that her guilt trip/ pressure on DH did not work. She made plans for him to drive 3 hours ( 6 total) with SIL this weekend to see sD14 play volleyball. He declined because the tires on our needed to be rotated this weekend and oil change needed to be done.

Of course !BM drama before our trip

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Submitted by JustanotherSM17 on Wed, 03/06/2024 - 6:48pm

I was waiting for it to happen, drama with SD , BM and MIL! I just had a feeling when DH said he was talking to MIL on the phone it had to do with SD. mIL loooooove To butt in his relationship with SD and tell him how he needs to be doing more when she has no idea what is doing on!!! So MIL basically guilted DH about " not being there more for SD" and how she is doing bad in school because he doesn't communicate with BM anymore and some how that has to do with SD14 doing bad in school and it's also because he doesn't see SD anymore!

Our lives out in the open!

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Submitted by JustanotherSM17 on Tue, 02/27/2024 - 11:21am

The one thing ( out on many) reasons why I do not being in blender family is because for some reason OUR lives and business is always aired out to everyone by SD14 , MIL and SIL. Some how BM gets word about our lives, purchases, trips and everything which she uses against DH anytime she can. DH did stop sharing a lot of information related to that to SD because it doesn't concern her yet some how SD 14 still knows our business! We recently went out of town .

Finally a spring break Vacay . !

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Submitted by JustanotherSM17 on Sun, 02/04/2024 - 4:38pm

So my sister asked me today if I would want to drive with her to Florida on spring break! She booked a Airbnb already ( she is paying for it all) but her husband and MIL can't go because they just found out some family news which they will be traveling that same week. So my Sister asked if me, DH and our kiddos want to come because there will be just enough room for us plus my niece . Also my sister doesn't want to make that 9 hour drive alone with my Niece so I told her yes of course we will plan to come ! Well in comes the down fall.

Scheduling and visitation

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Submitted by JustanotherSM17 on Fri, 01/26/2024 - 6:34pm

So I created another post because I want everyone's opinion on how this should be handled. So finally around 6pm DH send SD another text, she ignored his previous tectonic about if she was coming or not. SD finally responded saying "she couldn't" because her team has a watch party Sunday and she got invited to 2 birthday parties. And she said "I can't go next weekend" DH is not responded yet but I'm thinking .... UM NO you don't run the schedule around here at all!

BM yet again impersonating SD14

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Submitted by JustanotherSM17 on Fri, 01/26/2024 - 2:26pm

Yes this is a sad truth we already had to deal with this once before with BM impersonating SD and texting DH as SD . Mostly is when "SD" talks about me or SD referring to herself in the third person. We suspected BM was yet again texting as SD when DH received a random text complaining about me ( I posted about it) and texted DH "how could you stay married to someone who said mean things about your daughter " that whole text DH made in known to SD that he no longer wanted to communicate with BM and that SD needed to communicate to him directly.

It’s Friday Jr!!! Not sure how to feel

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Submitted by JustanotherSM17 on Thu, 01/11/2024 - 8:21pm

So it's suppose to be SD weekend starting tomorrow , in which honestly I hope she doesn't come after all she said to DH about me ( and we are pretty sure BM was replying as SD) I let DH know how I felt about it and I let him know that I really didn't want to be around her . But at the end of the day it's his daughter so I spoke my peace . Of course if true SD fashion she has already broke one of DHs rules he stated when he "had his talk" with her . DH told SD he needs to know on the Thursday of her weekend if she is coming or not , no more last minute back and forth being indecisive.

OMFG…. I tried to be optimistic!!!!!

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Submitted by JustanotherSM17 on Fri, 01/05/2024 - 3:54pm

I am fffing fuming right now!!!!!! Seriously!! I knew it was too good to be true and DH caved like a little B! So I am working from home, DH is getting the kids and his IPAD keeps going off. His IPAD is right by me and my laptop. I see SD name come across and it's text after text! I'm like wtf and I see a text come across saying " I will not forgive and forget" I'm like wtf is going on ! So I guess after DH let SD have it, as he should which was Monday I think or Tuesday it was silence  from SD!

Update from New Years Day

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Submitted by JustanotherSM17 on Wed, 01/03/2024 - 10:28am

The aftermath of our fight was DH backed off BS12 and he has changed his attitude towards the other children . We are going to start counseling this week and I hope it opens his eyes to a lot of things going on. I really think for him hearing advice from a 3rd party will go a long ways. He had a serious talk with SD, I didn't hear it because i was at work but he said he did it via FaceTime so she could see he meant business.

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