:? I just found out that my stepson got into college. I did not find out from him though, I found out from another mother at a football game. When I asked my husband about it he was angry because he had told his son several times to call and tell me. See I work out of state and do this because my husband got injured during his work and is still not able to work, so we made the decision for me to go on the road with my job so that the kids lifestyle would not have to change. We cover their school, insurance and carnotes and most other expenses. Their BM does very little unless she is going to be in the spotlight.

I feel that he should have called me and let me know, like is father told him to, but also because I am the one they always come to me when they need something. The fact that he did not tell me, to me is disrespectful and just rude.

We have had several conversations with him about this behaviour before and he just doesn't seem to get it but says he wants a "mother/son" relationship with me but how is that going to happen when he does stuff like this.

I am just so hurt that I don't even want to talk to him, but I have taken the car away until he talks to me face to face.

Somebody please help.